Sep 10, 2010

Mr.Perfect

[Carolina writing from a very basic level of inspiration, hoping to get some feedback] 

Yes, he exists. But he doesn't need to brag about his existence. 
So what if he was the typical captain of the varsity football team, who dated the hottest cheerleader, and was Prom King? Common trends, traditions, and qualifications all end up in the same spot of boredom (he know this).

A real Mr. Perfect knows that popularity just enhances social skills, and not human qualities. A real Mr. Perfect lives up to his own expectations, and could careless about others opinions. Simply, he is himself. Though he is always surrounded by superficial, dumb, immature, envious, etc. people; he remains humble. He is not afraid of change, and if he becomes someone else in a future, he doesn't fear facing acceptance. He acts, and gets things done. Or at least, he attempts to get through a phase, without wasting time trying to please everyone else. 

Personally, I admire his determination to get through the four years of high school drama and zero privacy. Yet, he could end up being a complete jerk or just as one more person in this world. A jerk is never a real Mr.Perfect, he wears a mask that people believe to be true. One more person in the world, is the real Mr.Perfect, and believe it or not, he could end up being one of the greatest persons you'll ever meet! 

(Let me further explain myself based on real personal experience) 

If I fit into a "classification" in society, I am an average girl. Not ugly, not beautiful, not bright, nor dumb. You get the point. Yet life keeps putting in my way a Mr.Perfect, and it's almost impossible not to feel attracted to him. 

First, he is always exceptionally outgoing, yet humble. Second, he truly is handsome. Third, he  approaches you no matter who you are. He doesn't care about how you look, and even though he might seem interested in you, it's not true.. He is just....enlightened (sorry, I am just being realistic, good personalities can always be mixed up with attraction). He will, however, be interested in hearing your stories, because he knows your life is still different from others. He might be able to figure you out in five minutes, but you know his past thanks to popular cliches (so you are even). He could be really intimidating at first, but overall he tends to be nice and  it will turn out fine. It's really important to just be yourself, he is smart enough to detect "pretenders", and he will go away. Why? Well,  he doesn't go away because you are not good enough for him, he goes away because he has seen enough falsehood. I know it's hard to take out the "unattainable" sign off his face, but he is human after all. He has amazing stories to share, a true friendship to offer, a good sweetheart memory perhaps, don't reject him, nor praise him. Don't send him off the the top of the sky as you watch from the ground. Be natural, and they will be impressed. Show that you are fearless to his presence. Be indifferent to make him wonder and so on. The relationship can actually become interesting, and it's possible you get to form bonds. Even if they are temporary, hopefully that's not your case, it's worth living. Sometimes you learn so much more from a good conversation, than a life time.

If you know a Mr.Perfect, and if you are lucky enough to start talking to him, don't waste the opportunity to enrich and be enriched. If you really like him, take a risk, if you want to be his friend, let him know. After all "there are over six billion people on the planet earth, you are one, and he is another" (On the Planet Earth by Danielle Ate the Sandwhich). 

I am going to leave you with the video that just inspired me to write about Mr. Perfect, of course the Mr.Perfect I know influenced all of these nonsense, but the phrase in that song got me writing. 


P.S. I know it might be vague, but I hope to keep writing about Mr. Perfect, as I understand him better.
Have a good life and thank you for reading.


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